How To Make A Meeting Effective With One Simple Behaviour

Meetings can be useful.

I know, I know – sometimes they are the bane of people’s lives. Not only in schools, but in many jobs.

They can feel like:

  • wasted time
  • repeated thinking
  • done to keep up appearances (..of ‘listening to staff’ etc.

BUT there is one behaviour that can make an immediate difference as an attendee.

It’s simple: giving my attention to the speaker.


Whilst it’s simple, it’s not easy.

It might be easier to say what NOT to do.

Giving my attention to the speaker is not: checking emails, planning my shopping in my head, talking to the teacher next to me, checking my phone, or any of the million and one things a teacher could do in a meeting.

Why is it so simple, yet so challenging? We expect this behaviour from the students in class, but find it hard ourselves.

I have delivered a whole-school INSET where one teacher was marking.

Actively not paying attention.

I could have called out the staff member – I didn’t have the confidence.

Now I would.

Back then what struck me after the INSET was that the Principal didn’t say anything.

But also – would the teacher marking expect that active non-attention from pupils in their maths class?


I have a choice about my behaviour.

Yes meetings can be:

  • planned badly
  • have no objective
  • set up with unrealistic timings
  • convened with not enough people have done the prep work…

When I wrote this list, I thought it sounded familiar…

…is it teachers in a meeting or pupils in a class?

The big difference is that as an adult and a teacher, I have a choice where to put my attention.

Giving it to a fellow professional as they explain an idea is more than just courtesy. It’s an action that empowers the person speaking.

It’s a simple way to create value in the meeting and make it effective.

I invite you to ask yourself:

How do you empower the senior leaders in your school?


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